Black Female Sexuality: In Memory of Sarah Baartman

By Paige Diamond It’s Black History Month and no, I’m not going to bore you with clichés of “Black is beautiful” or “The blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice” or my favorite by the late and great James Brown “Say it loud, I’m black and I’m proud”. I think we’ve worn them out already. … Continue reading

The Side Chick:Who She Is & Why She Won’t Get Her Own Man Part II

Type I One thing that stood out the most for their reason why they chose to be the other woman was simple…CONVENIENCE. In spite of what you may have thought, SHE really doesn’t want to be HER. They like the benefits, but really don’t want the responsibility of being HER. SHE may not be in … Continue reading

Infidelity Has A Price…. for the Mistress too!

All this uproar about Fantasia Barrino and Antwuan Cook’s affair is completely NUTS!  Allegedly the wife of Antwuan Cook, Paula Cook has filed a lawsuit against Fantasia under a law called Alienation of Affection. According to http://www.marriage.about.com: “An alienation of affection lawsuit is one in which a spouse can sue a third party if his … Continue reading

Earned- Not Given

Ok So as you see the whole month of September was non existent here- so I apologize in advance…BUT I’M BACK SO LET’S GET IT POPPIN’! Now that I am done with my little disclaimer lets get to the premise of this blog which is one of my favorite topics to rant about- DATING. As … Continue reading

Serial Monogamy

I have been in quite a few conversations about relationships and everyone for the most part thinks that if you are not monogamous, you are not in a relationship. How could you sleep with someone else and be in a relationship with another person? That’s low down and triflin’ right? The question was asked- “Could … Continue reading